So once again I come across a story that involves one party's tale over another that land the latter in jail. And once again it involves a man imprisoned for a crime he didn't commit due to the lies of a female.
Recently read a story of a man who was locked up for 4 years because a woman said she was raped by him. According to her touching testimony she lied to friends, doctors, police, prosecutors, grand jurors and jurors about how the man and his friends kidnapped her from her parked car when she was blind drunk and attacked her. Apparently what actually happened was she had gotten into a car with the man and his two friends and kissed him -- but grew afraid after she blew off his further advances and he erupted in anger, cursing at her and threatening to dump her out on the street (which is where she belonged). After he dropped her back to her friends she told them she was raped because her friends were upset she had left them with no warning. So instead of looking like a flat leaver she sent a dude to jail. Hmm seems rational. Based almost solely on her testimony, he was given 20 years in prison and spent the past three years serving time. This man is only out now because she told her priest who forced her to tell the DA. Even after all this the man is not upset with the woman & praised her for coming forward finally. A better man than me I suppose...
I cant help but be upset at this situation since it is known that a woman's word is worth gold against a man in almost any situation where she is deemed hurt by said man. This dude was put away with no evidence, no rape kit, no eyewitnesses. Shit is sad cuz it could have been any man. These stories keep popping up and innocent men keep being put away especially if they are part of a minority group or had some type of run in with the law previously (damn on both counts for me).
Other such cases included the Hofstra freshman who dropped 4 men in jail with her wild reckless story of being raped in a bathroom all because basically she didn't want her man to know she was a huge freak. (Twisted Motive Behind Rape Story).
Or the well accounted for story of the Duke Lacrosse team (Duke Lacrosse Case). As we all know the 2006 Duke University lacrosse case was a scandal that started in March 2006 when student at North Carolina Central University who worked as an exotic dancer and escort,accused three Duke University students of raping her at a party. The accuser was black and the three lacrosse players were white. Many involved in the case, including the prosecutor, called the alleged assault a hate crime or suggested it might be one. Obviously she was lying and the lives of these three men were never the same.
Unfortunately most of us don't learn the lessons we are taught at a young age like don't cry wolf. These women believed they could get away with these lies because no one believes a man when rape is involved. I mean look at Kobe Bryant (Bryant Assault Case) even thought he was unfaithful he was no rapist. I mean how could he be his accuser kept multiple semen samples in her panties. The point is until women such as these are prosecuted as harshly for their perjury as the men are for these alleged rapes this epidemic will continue. It gets to a point where you cant just pick up a woman for a decent fling without having some people over to watch to protect your ass ... literally. These men are out of jail but who really knows how many innocent others are actually behind bars for rapes that didn't occur due to these well rehearsed stories that make many shed a tear at the plight of liars.
Privacy
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As many of you know there has been a popular story regarding Tiger Woods in the media lately. I personally was a little tired of hearing about it already since I dont know the man. But my take was requested by a loyal reade so the story goes like this:
- During Thanksgiving week Tiger Woods was involved in a car accident around 2:30AM. Homeboy was dashing down his driveway and ended up hitting a hydrant. And he didn't just hit a hydrant and tree. He crossed over a curb, onto a grass median and hit a row of hedges before driving into the hydrant and tree. His wife Elin, apparently had to bash out his back window and pull him to safety. By the time cops came neighbors were around & he was slipping in & out of consciousness. Cops took it as a routine accident.
Now this was all well & good till the media got a hold of this. In the days past leading up to Tiger now saying that he has had "trangressions" against hs family & that he regrets with "all of my heart." "I have not been true to my values and the behavior my family deserves." What lead to him making this statement about his private life. Lets list the media reports shall we:
- First it was said that there was extramarital affairs by Tiger & domestic violence within his household (unclear from which party).
- Then it was said his wife was chasing him with the golf club and she bashed the whip.
- Then several papers stated that he has been & continuing to sleep with Rachel Uchitel. She flat out denied it & had a 2 page story in the NY Post that really was an extended phrase of I didnt fuck him... She get the side eye
- Then more women come out saying they slept with Tiger including some chick who was on Tool Academy on MTV & some chick who has voicemails of Tiger calling her, telling her to take her name off her voicemail & texts saying he would give her the business.. BOOM!
- Now apparently his wife called one of his side pieces & said "You know who this is because you're fucking my husband"
Today I was on my Twitter & this topic had the tweeps all in a buzz with trending topics such as "sidechickawareness" & "why men/women cheat". Alot of it was hilarious & actually some good tips apparently. But some where just giving info away that wasnt neede to be known bout them.
And this is where I make my point on privacy. Homeboy is a human being, he's not some sideshow that we look to for giggles and laughs. Infidelity is a huge problem nowadays. Regardless if he is sleeping with or slept with these women thats his life and him & his wife have to work through that, not them & America. When Joe down the block fucks some next chick shit aint news. And now shorties & dudes on Twitter putting they business out there. Just keep your life yours & let others mind theirs.
Lastly my take on it is nigga was arguing with his wife, he was upset shorty chased him around the crib, she grabbed his 9Iron, he split, she pursued, he tried to get in the whip & she took some swings, homie tried to break down the driveway & he crashed. Honestly where the hell else you goin at 2:30 in the AM but to catch a bootycall or split from ya crazy ass spouse on Thanksgiving.
50 Best NBA Slam Dunks
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The big NBA fan that I am I just had to post this. The crew at Complex Magazine has compiled the 50 best dunks of all-time into one tight little package.
Now this being their opinion there is going to be debate, so don't get excited for the rankings
Would of served them better if they compiled the best 50 in no particular order (I'm particularly fond of #4 & #11 but that's just me) with that in mind, check out Complex's list of the 50 Best NBA Slam Dunks, a collection of humiliating, in-your-face jams.
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Book Spotlight: Mode One
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People always say "you should read more". Honestly my ADD will not allow me to sit and read books if they don't interest me. My interest include basketball, music, women & money not necessarily in that order. So imagine my disgust when my boy hit me up telling me about a book he just read. I was skeptical but in the end it solidified the conversations we were having regularly.
What book could have peeked my interests so well? Mode One (Let The Women Know What You're REALLY Thinking) By Alan Roger Currie.
If you search this book on Amazon its listed under Psychology & Counseling and grouped with many other "How To" dating books. This book is so much more. There are many books on the market that profess to teach men how to attract and seduce "any woman they want to" or "any woman they meet." this book makes no such "hyped up" claims. Currie's approach is all about upfront, straightforward honesty combined with non-manipulative, highly self-assured behavior.
Mode One teaches men that sometimes, being rejected by women is actually a good thing. Especially if that woman is nothing more than a highly skilled manipulator looking to waste a man's time, and take advantage of him financially. We all know women like this and the sooner you can identify this type of woman you can get closer to avoiding this hassle.
The biggest lesson to be learned in Mode One is that men should avoid playing the role of the "well-mannered nice guy" in the hopes that their pleasant, lenient, overly-accommodating, and ultra-flattering behavior will be somehow rewarded later on with a woman's romantic and/or sexual companionship. Everyone knows that women don't want "nice" men, and men don't want women to use them. This book shows you the effective way to communicate which can be used not only to attract women but in your everyday life. Men & women have manipulative personalities.
I myself have never been one to be shy on saying whats on my mind. I have been blessed with avoiding those women (or people in general) that are looking to just get a free ride or pass some time with a guy that they are not interested in. Like the lyric goes, when you see the snakes in the grass then you lean on they ass, so when I feel like someone is trying to use me I put them in they place. I thoroughly enjoyed this book because it just put in perspective the way I normally do business. Honesty has always and will be the best policy.
If this book interests you can check it on Amazon (FYI there's a PDF version that can be downloaded on the net, LimeWire & Torrents for you intellectual thieves - cant post that here don't need another case...)
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Get To Know You
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How can you expect someone else to give you what it s that you want when you don't even know yourself?
I am a big advocate of relationships... healthy relationships. I also am deathly afraid of being alone. From as far back as I can remember I craved companionship. Maybe being the last born of 3 children & being the only boy, maybe growing up with a distant father in the house I just needed that attention. I clinged to other family members and absorb their circles as my own. The more attention the better. As I grew up this need allowed me to be taken advantage of cuz I felt their happiness was more important than my own. It lead to me either dealing with multiple women or me dropping everything important to me for that one selfish woman. Once out of that situation I had 4 years to my self. That lead me to understand what it was that truly made me happy. Yes I still had women in my life but it was on my terms, no advantages no disadvantages. Now I feel ready to give my all to another woman cuz I'm happy with myself, flaws & all.
This little back story is due to a convo I had with a good friend. She is currently in another potential destructive situation. She has a man, he doesn't treat her as she should be, he doesn't open up to her & he uses her. She has another suitor but he isn't good for her either cuz he has a family. While we spoke I commented that she needs to not be with anyone else. That was met with some opposition. The reason I gave her such advice is cuz she doesn't actually know herself. She has been in back to back to back long term relationships that end up awry. She's contemplating cheating on dude, which is what usually happens to her. Trust is big & she doesn't even trust herself enough to be faithful. I believe a little time away from needing that other person to express how they feel bout her (whether physical or emotional) would do wonders and allow her to explore how she feels bout herself. As we all know women are attention whores & it comes about from having qualms about themselves. Once she becomes truly happy with herself then the choice can be made from potential suitors who truly have her best intentions in mind. Now that I'm happy with me, I want to make my significant other smile as much as I do inside.
So what do you think ... Is being alone that unbearable if the time spent leads you to true happiness in the end???
I am a big advocate of relationships... healthy relationships. I also am deathly afraid of being alone. From as far back as I can remember I craved companionship. Maybe being the last born of 3 children & being the only boy, maybe growing up with a distant father in the house I just needed that attention. I clinged to other family members and absorb their circles as my own. The more attention the better. As I grew up this need allowed me to be taken advantage of cuz I felt their happiness was more important than my own. It lead to me either dealing with multiple women or me dropping everything important to me for that one selfish woman. Once out of that situation I had 4 years to my self. That lead me to understand what it was that truly made me happy. Yes I still had women in my life but it was on my terms, no advantages no disadvantages. Now I feel ready to give my all to another woman cuz I'm happy with myself, flaws & all.
This little back story is due to a convo I had with a good friend. She is currently in another potential destructive situation. She has a man, he doesn't treat her as she should be, he doesn't open up to her & he uses her. She has another suitor but he isn't good for her either cuz he has a family. While we spoke I commented that she needs to not be with anyone else. That was met with some opposition. The reason I gave her such advice is cuz she doesn't actually know herself. She has been in back to back to back long term relationships that end up awry. She's contemplating cheating on dude, which is what usually happens to her. Trust is big & she doesn't even trust herself enough to be faithful. I believe a little time away from needing that other person to express how they feel bout her (whether physical or emotional) would do wonders and allow her to explore how she feels bout herself. As we all know women are attention whores & it comes about from having qualms about themselves. Once she becomes truly happy with herself then the choice can be made from potential suitors who truly have her best intentions in mind. Now that I'm happy with me, I want to make my significant other smile as much as I do inside.
So what do you think ... Is being alone that unbearable if the time spent leads you to true happiness in the end???
Battle Scars
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There are reasons to why people give the advice of never do what doesn't make you happy. Happiness is a rare and treasured thing. Without it you are just a shell being pushed by the waves and swells of life.
Everyday you are tested and challenged. Once you feel you have passed then comes another & another till you just feel like whats the point. But you must persevere through the tribulations. Many a time I believed I failed only to be blessed with what I longed for. For years I yearned for that brass ring that seemed so far till this past October when I was at my lowest I reached up & grabbed it & I will never let go. Finally happiness but alas it didn't last long... My trials at work I have documented but I must take you back to '05 for you to understand why my heart pains for a job most wouldn't give 2 shits about.
Back in '05 I was living at home, recent Baruch grad, unemployed but very much in love. So in love was I that the dreaded M word danced in my head. Yes marriage. Now the upstanding gentleman that my mother raised me to be I knew that I had to do right by my future bride. Cant get married sleeping on a twin bed can you? So I pursued employment with all the time I had. I mean trips to LI everyday for interviews, combing the job sites all cuz I had a ring to buy& to find a place for me & mine. One day I went up to Baruch to see my beloved and my boy told me of the employment he just secured. Salary, commission, benefits - all that a husband needs. The company JPMorgan Chase. So I went to this interview like all the others, confident & assure. Met the Branch Manager (hell of a lady) then the District Manager (big time douche). I still remember that day, I was asked to sell him my watch & by the end he was trying to take it off my wrist. Job secured, got my girl - happy. Fast forward a lil - training done but girl lost. Sent to a my branch in Greenpoint for my 1st official day. From day one I had to deal with trails from racism to people not liking me cuz I tell it how it is. When the racism came to light I was asked if I wanted a transfer but the loyal dude I am I said no cuz I would have been abandoning the one person who allowed me to get my life on track. I mean cuz she chose me I was able to increase my savings 9 fold. I'm talking low 4 figures to high 6 figures. As time went on I increasingly got happy again- women here & there but I was able to do anything I wanted, buy what I want & get my place.
Fast forward to '09... economic downturn leads to Chase changing focus. They say they out to help the customer but its all about dollars. Again chance to leave but I stay cuz my loyalty comes into play. By this time I have a core of customers that depend on me. I have helped so many people either set their lives up or turn it around that I get thanked to this day from 3 years ago. Should I look at these people as dollar signs? If there's no commission should I just chuck em from my desk. That's not me. I took this job cuz I wanted to make a difference in peoples lives & I feel I have. Now full circle cuz I'm being targeted by a racist manager who will stop at nothing till all the minorities are out. I returned from vacation 10/23 to find out she was actually telling my co-workers she wanted me out. I mean WTF...
From family members with life threatening diseases to getting arrested to an abortion to almost losing that special girl '09 started rough & progressively gotten worse & now I may start '10 outta work... No bueno
But through this all I have had the admiration & well wishes of many close to me that have kept me sane. I stay strong for them cuz we equally need each other & I cant be selfish by abandoning them... I am battle tested & I will win out in the end.....
Everyday you are tested and challenged. Once you feel you have passed then comes another & another till you just feel like whats the point. But you must persevere through the tribulations. Many a time I believed I failed only to be blessed with what I longed for. For years I yearned for that brass ring that seemed so far till this past October when I was at my lowest I reached up & grabbed it & I will never let go. Finally happiness but alas it didn't last long... My trials at work I have documented but I must take you back to '05 for you to understand why my heart pains for a job most wouldn't give 2 shits about.
Back in '05 I was living at home, recent Baruch grad, unemployed but very much in love. So in love was I that the dreaded M word danced in my head. Yes marriage. Now the upstanding gentleman that my mother raised me to be I knew that I had to do right by my future bride. Cant get married sleeping on a twin bed can you? So I pursued employment with all the time I had. I mean trips to LI everyday for interviews, combing the job sites all cuz I had a ring to buy& to find a place for me & mine. One day I went up to Baruch to see my beloved and my boy told me of the employment he just secured. Salary, commission, benefits - all that a husband needs. The company JPMorgan Chase. So I went to this interview like all the others, confident & assure. Met the Branch Manager (hell of a lady) then the District Manager (big time douche). I still remember that day, I was asked to sell him my watch & by the end he was trying to take it off my wrist. Job secured, got my girl - happy. Fast forward a lil - training done but girl lost. Sent to a my branch in Greenpoint for my 1st official day. From day one I had to deal with trails from racism to people not liking me cuz I tell it how it is. When the racism came to light I was asked if I wanted a transfer but the loyal dude I am I said no cuz I would have been abandoning the one person who allowed me to get my life on track. I mean cuz she chose me I was able to increase my savings 9 fold. I'm talking low 4 figures to high 6 figures. As time went on I increasingly got happy again- women here & there but I was able to do anything I wanted, buy what I want & get my place.
Fast forward to '09... economic downturn leads to Chase changing focus. They say they out to help the customer but its all about dollars. Again chance to leave but I stay cuz my loyalty comes into play. By this time I have a core of customers that depend on me. I have helped so many people either set their lives up or turn it around that I get thanked to this day from 3 years ago. Should I look at these people as dollar signs? If there's no commission should I just chuck em from my desk. That's not me. I took this job cuz I wanted to make a difference in peoples lives & I feel I have. Now full circle cuz I'm being targeted by a racist manager who will stop at nothing till all the minorities are out. I returned from vacation 10/23 to find out she was actually telling my co-workers she wanted me out. I mean WTF...
From family members with life threatening diseases to getting arrested to an abortion to almost losing that special girl '09 started rough & progressively gotten worse & now I may start '10 outta work... No bueno
But through this all I have had the admiration & well wishes of many close to me that have kept me sane. I stay strong for them cuz we equally need each other & I cant be selfish by abandoning them... I am battle tested & I will win out in the end.....
Support: Bizzy-Free Lunch
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First & foremost shoutout to the dude Bizzy
I have been blessed to know this dude & seen his hustle.
Words from the man:
- Free Lunch" the mixtape from BiZZY! became available for download Oct. 31 at www.BlackGeniusInc.com. Be one of the first to witness the real. The mixtape is authentic in that it is meant to capture the emotions that we all juggle on a daily basis. "Free Lunch" will be the soundtrack for that late night train ride and early morning bus trip alike. It encompasses the struggle that we all turn into triumph and it highlights both our failures and successes because these things are what makes a free lunch...free. This is for him, her, them and us. R U BiZZY?
Check the site: BlackGeniusInc.com
Link for download: Bizzy -Free Lunch Mixtape
God Don't Like Ugly
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Now Ive had this story for a lil while ... When that green eyed monster enters
Recently I was shocked and amazed at how lil someone who I cared for took our friendship. This person thought so lil of us that they couldn't make a phone call to discuss something that affected us both. Whatever, after speaking to family & expressing my frustrations on Twitter I came to realize what she did wasn't life threatening.
So me being the bigger man I seem to be more times than not (big heart in this 6'7 frame) I contacted this individual to see if we could move on. She was concerned cuz of my recent ailment so we met up to talk. Not gonna lie to you the lil over 2 hours spent was excruciating. The awkwardness, the silence just wasn't natural with someone who came to know me & I know them as well. As our time ended we split ways with a hug, now I'm thinking we gonna meet up again another time so I let it pass.
Couple hours pass by, my boy Jay comes through to watch that Yankees World Series Game 1 when I get a text from shorty. So I'm like she texting me to let me know she got home safe. This when the hate flows. So here is the text breakdown with my feelings in parentheses:
She continues on but what she wrote had no bearing on my thoughts. But she did let me know she made a comment on Facebook. So I go online and she writes on her status: is officially close a chapter in my book that i may not go back 2!! Now that's cool except that chapter was never written. Just cuz we had no chance because of how you are then that means you gotta dump on another girl cuz she has better qualities than you since I spend my time with her.
Now this "Hate" epidemic has spread so wide that honestly people don't even know they hating anymore. At no point have I ever, ever gone online to look through ex's photos to see who they dealing with now, wrote my status to take pot shots at another woman & disparage her current. If you got something to say just say it, don't send me a text or Twitter bout it. Especially since those photos been up a week & half before we spoke. I know you see that shit on the Live Feed.
People if you have an issue with someone keep it off the Internet, just speak to them. Be a human being. I write this now because I have spoke to her so this is just me venting like I always do. Oh also if you gonna make your status to make you look good make sure the info is correct. You might have closed the chapter but should've glanced at the Prologue cuz your chances of being my girl were slim, maybe closer to none...
Recently I was shocked and amazed at how lil someone who I cared for took our friendship. This person thought so lil of us that they couldn't make a phone call to discuss something that affected us both. Whatever, after speaking to family & expressing my frustrations on Twitter I came to realize what she did wasn't life threatening.
So me being the bigger man I seem to be more times than not (big heart in this 6'7 frame) I contacted this individual to see if we could move on. She was concerned cuz of my recent ailment so we met up to talk. Not gonna lie to you the lil over 2 hours spent was excruciating. The awkwardness, the silence just wasn't natural with someone who came to know me & I know them as well. As our time ended we split ways with a hug, now I'm thinking we gonna meet up again another time so I let it pass.
Couple hours pass by, my boy Jay comes through to watch that Yankees World Series Game 1 when I get a text from shorty. So I'm like she texting me to let me know she got home safe. This when the hate flows. So here is the text breakdown with my feelings in parentheses:
- Her: Please don't tell me the girl on ya page is the girl you talkin to!!!
- Me: Y? (Confused)
- Her: Because you can do so much better than that! (Like you I bet). I'm not even sayin me I'm sayin in general. (Sure) She not even pretty, she only has an ass. (1 plus over you)
- Me: Where did that come from?
- Her: It came from Facebook, your Miami pics... I said OH HELL NO... I expected her to be gorgeous... (well your not gorgeous so I guess that's why your not my girl)
- Me: Honestly that is very rude. I never settle. If I deal with her then she special. Your entitled to your opinion but watch your mouth. Way to ruin my opinion of you.
She continues on but what she wrote had no bearing on my thoughts. But she did let me know she made a comment on Facebook. So I go online and she writes on her status: is officially close a chapter in my book that i may not go back 2!! Now that's cool except that chapter was never written. Just cuz we had no chance because of how you are then that means you gotta dump on another girl cuz she has better qualities than you since I spend my time with her.
Now this "Hate" epidemic has spread so wide that honestly people don't even know they hating anymore. At no point have I ever, ever gone online to look through ex's photos to see who they dealing with now, wrote my status to take pot shots at another woman & disparage her current. If you got something to say just say it, don't send me a text or Twitter bout it. Especially since those photos been up a week & half before we spoke. I know you see that shit on the Live Feed.
People if you have an issue with someone keep it off the Internet, just speak to them. Be a human being. I write this now because I have spoke to her so this is just me venting like I always do. Oh also if you gonna make your status to make you look good make sure the info is correct. You might have closed the chapter but should've glanced at the Prologue cuz your chances of being my girl were slim, maybe closer to none...
Corporate Benefits
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As most you know I do promotions/marketing on the side for adidas (no one contact JPMorgan Chase). Everyone needs several hustles so lets say I have mastered my time well.
Here I have an offer for my people (& whoever else rolls past the blog). A lil late on this one but I'm busy so get off my back. Still 2 days left just print out & head by the Soho store (Broadway & Houston) or ball out online til Sunday night 11:59pm.
If this doesn't benefit you this weekend below I provide Friends & Family. If you my friend you my family so...
In the spirit of the upcoming holiday season, I would like to extend to you my Holiday Friends and Family Discount. Enjoy a 40% discount off an entire purchase at any adidas Sport Performance, Originals or Factory Outlet store from November 5th through November 8th. To redeem, simply print this email with the coupon below and bring it to an adidas store. Again closest one is in Soho...
Happy Holidays....
Here I have an offer for my people (& whoever else rolls past the blog). A lil late on this one but I'm busy so get off my back. Still 2 days left just print out & head by the Soho store (Broadway & Houston) or ball out online til Sunday night 11:59pm.
If this doesn't benefit you this weekend below I provide Friends & Family. If you my friend you my family so...
In the spirit of the upcoming holiday season, I would like to extend to you my Holiday Friends and Family Discount. Enjoy a 40% discount off an entire purchase at any adidas Sport Performance, Originals or Factory Outlet store from November 5th through November 8th. To redeem, simply print this email with the coupon below and bring it to an adidas store. Again closest one is in Soho...
Happy Holidays....
I.M.G. Celebrates Launch of FRSHPulp.com
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Who: Imperial Marketing Group
What: FRSHPULP.com Magazine Launch
Where: White Rabbit, 145 E. Houston Street (Bet. Forsyth & Eldridge)
When: Thursday, November 5th @ 9:00 p.m.
What: FRSHPULP.com Magazine Launch
Where: White Rabbit, 145 E. Houston Street (Bet. Forsyth & Eldridge)
When: Thursday, November 5th @ 9:00 p.m.
Brooklyn based lifestyle agency, Imperial Marketing Group (I.M.G.) will celebrate the official launch of new online magazine FRSHPulp on Thursday, November 5 at White Rabbit in New York City. Sponsored by Wealthy Hostage Boutique and The Goodie Bag, in partnership with ILLBANGER Thursdaze and Good Wood NYC, the event will feature free giveaways and an exclusive preview of Good Wood's new collection as well as the first unveiling of the new website, FRSHPulp.com.
FRSHPulp will launch with five sections: ftured, sndz, hstle, threadz and evntz. Each section representing one of the 5 elements of freshness: people, music, fashion, career x money management and events.
Now I have been working closely with I.M.G. & I can tell you that they (we) are on to big things. Come out & show support cuz its definitely going to be a good look.
Choices
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Thank God October is almost over. Thinking of taking a trip to PR or a special trip to Jamaica. But before that can be done Ive had a situation on my brain. Take a read:
Me personally, I believe your life is a destined path. The choices you make right or wrong lead you down the line. You are who you are supposed to be. The issues that arise are to teach you lessons along the way. Problems arise when people outside of your path make choices that affect you. Its like that movie "The Butterfly Effect", one choice leads to another & your future just might change drastically.
People tell him not to be upset cuz it probably wouldn't have worked out between them & basically that's why she made the choice she made. It is her body & her life but some choices don't only effect you but also those around you & the ones you say you care for. She could have at least called him & had a discussion. Maybe things would have changed. You cant assume he would be a deadbeat or that problems would arise between you two. Lets not forget 4 months is far along in a fetus' development. Who would agree to such a thing. Do me a favor hit Google & check photos of what is going on inside a woman's womb after 4 months. Hell check 3 months. (Google Images)
Now he cant help but feel that maybe his life has changed drastically & things would be & will be different. What if he never has kids? What if he has just one & that child grows up resentful that they never had a sibling? Long shots... hmm possibly but everything is possible. What if she lying? What if she made it up? What if she actually has the kid? Ahh forever questions.
Life lesson: never assume what could or couldn't be. Always be honest, upfront & real. People may surprise you...
- There was a guy who had a relationship with this girl. They met thru unconventional means and had a spark since the first conversation. 1st time they saw each other was at his home & she slept over. They didn't fuck til he took her out (cuz she let him know that was the only way). Time passed and they grew closer. She was the type of girl who had many things going on in her life (school, design, unfulfilling job) & maybe a lil immature. He is the type who is established but has side hustles & is extremely honest. He told her honestly how he felt bout her and what it took to be his. She decided to ignore those things or look past them cuz of her busy schedule. But in the same breath she constantly accused him of seeing people behind her back & being a male whore. He couldn't fathom where the accusations came from especially since he always told her of his other jumpoffs. She always said he was all about sex but they had nothing else to build on since she never had time. She was extremely attractive (tall, long legs, nice behind, pretty face) so he never apologized for wanting to hit it when he saw her. She eventually couldn't handle the way things were but building past that stage would be difficult. He considered her as a future & she did special things for him but never gave him what he truly needed. Time. Its like having a long distance relationship within the same borough (Asinine). She left. Time passed, life went on. He decides to see if she is OK cuz he believed they were still friends. Never did he think she would have been keeping a secret. She tells him that she was pregnant for him & decided to have an abortion. He was upset that she didn't even give him a call to let him know even though it is ultimately her decision. The kicker on this story is the baby was 4 months in the womb... She says she didn't know (side eye).
Me personally, I believe your life is a destined path. The choices you make right or wrong lead you down the line. You are who you are supposed to be. The issues that arise are to teach you lessons along the way. Problems arise when people outside of your path make choices that affect you. Its like that movie "The Butterfly Effect", one choice leads to another & your future just might change drastically.
People tell him not to be upset cuz it probably wouldn't have worked out between them & basically that's why she made the choice she made. It is her body & her life but some choices don't only effect you but also those around you & the ones you say you care for. She could have at least called him & had a discussion. Maybe things would have changed. You cant assume he would be a deadbeat or that problems would arise between you two. Lets not forget 4 months is far along in a fetus' development. Who would agree to such a thing. Do me a favor hit Google & check photos of what is going on inside a woman's womb after 4 months. Hell check 3 months. (Google Images)
Now he cant help but feel that maybe his life has changed drastically & things would be & will be different. What if he never has kids? What if he has just one & that child grows up resentful that they never had a sibling? Long shots... hmm possibly but everything is possible. What if she lying? What if she made it up? What if she actually has the kid? Ahh forever questions.
Life lesson: never assume what could or couldn't be. Always be honest, upfront & real. People may surprise you...
Life.. Happiness Deterrent
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What makes you happy? Its many things to many people:
- Money
- Women
- Alcohol
- Drugs
- Social Situations
For me its so simple ... Piece of mind.
October has been a very stressful month for me & its not a good look for the end of the year. Several court dates, possible termination of employment, almost losing someone special to me.
I recently took a trip to Miami & I was hoping this would bring me some joy for at least a week. Boy not with my luck. My main reason of going was to somehow rekindle the magic I had the previous year with a special person. Her smile calms me down & gives me that piece of mind. Well safe to say we weren't on the same page, avoidance was made & stress ensued. All I wanted was a lil alone time & not for what you would think (pervs). One party felt actions didn't match the words being said & the other felt honesty of feelings might just put us on track. Conversation was had & I thought shit was cool but perception isn't reality...
Then I took a short trip to Georgia to see my family. That was cool. Saw my sis, my aunt, my cuz, my lil cuz (such a lil lady & so cute). Fun was had laughs were made til... I decide to contact am old friend on AIM just to see how she's doing. Well my luck she gives me information that literally made me want to punch her in the face. I will save that tidbit for another time since I am still upset about it but safe to say it ruined my day, week & possibly life.
Then I come home to see the ones Ive missed.. had plans, those failed. Go to work and find out that my manager is plotting to have me removed from my job. I mean WTF can I have one piece of my life go right this month. What kind of manager, let alone adult talk behind a colleagues back to plots & scheme to get them fired. If you have an issue with me just tell me. Then I got HR asking me bout my arrest. Damn who wants to be me??
I know life isn't fair and every obstacle is a lesson learned but '09 was great til 10/1. All I want is a lil happiness but it doesn't seem anytime soon or at least til this fucking month is over...
Outside Looking In
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So today I was hanging with my sis at the mall. Good times, went to eat, saw a movie... good time.
Afterward we went to meet up with her co-worker at the Express (small chick 28yrs old, has 2 kids one of which is 13yrs old but that's for another time). So while in there they flirt with this dude who works in there. Now I'm a lil creeped out that my sis would flirt with a dude right in front of me but whatever I peeped game just for kicks. What occurred was generally interesting ...
Afterward we went to meet up with her co-worker at the Express (small chick 28yrs old, has 2 kids one of which is 13yrs old but that's for another time). So while in there they flirt with this dude who works in there. Now I'm a lil creeped out that my sis would flirt with a dude right in front of me but whatever I peeped game just for kicks. What occurred was generally interesting ...
- 1st off I don't know if everyone notices this but when women go from having a conversation with a person they know to a conversation with someone they want to know the tone & pitch of their voice makes a drastic turn. Every time my sister flirts her voice gets more sultry & she has this dumb ass laugh. You women think we don't notice this and it actually allows us men to "g" you a lil better. SMH
- 2nd she told homeboy her name was Aisia. Her name ain't Aisia. I have come to notice that every woman has an alias. For what reason do ya not want to use your real names is beyond me. I can never have a chick come up to me ask my name & I go "Hey I'm Steve" or "Hey I'm Derek". WTF is he gonna find you by just your first name. While I was in Miami some shorty even had the audacity to ask me if I want her real or alias. I want neither, fuck out my face.
- 3rd this dude made a cardinal sin when it comes to picking up girls. He tried to keep em both interested while trying to see which one would give him play. Safe to say he crashed on both ends. Its much better to alienate one chick while going after the one you want. It will show her your interested in her and that no other chick matters at that time.
- Lastly he gave up his number. Needless to say we all know that he will not be getting a phone call on that number except from his mother.
Just a quick scenario wrap up on the interactions between the sexes. Only if he knew what was said bout him after we left the store... He would wanna kill himself. He just seemed like one of those insecure dudes. On the behalf of my sis... I much rather kill myself than watch her flirt again..
A Wise Woman Once Said...
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Coming to you straight from da ATL. I'm down here this week visiting the fam (haven't seen em in like forever... literally).
Was fortunate enough to sit with my sis & one of my fav aunts and speak on relationships. Clearly I was asked whats up with my love life and I Chris Brown'd all around that topic. I have one Per Se but that info for now on whether its good or bad is mine for now. So my sis who likes to throw me under the bus mentioned one girl she loves to bring up to company. She mentioned this girl who I had a casual sexual relationship with in the past. She loves to use this example for some reason to portray me as a dog. I believe she likes this situation cuz she allowed the girl to weasel into her life to stay close to me. She allowed the girl to make her believe she tricked on me. So I told my aunt like this straight up, Ive been taking care of myself financially since I was 14 & this girl tried to buy my love. I told shorty from jump what it was gonna be, didn't want her to be my girl before we ever had sex, just friends. She saw my point but asked if I normally have sex with my friends. I said no but when I do I handle it by separating emotions. I told her women have a tendency to mix up love & sex. Just cuz a man sleeps with you doesn't mean its more than that. Communication is key so lay the guidelines. She saw my point but still thought I was a dog.
Now the topic of dating came up. Now we all know from previous posts my take on that topic. What was interesting was that this older Haitian woman had the same views on dating as I did. She was married before, has 2 daughters, 4 grandkids & a long distance "boyfriend". Now my sis keeps telling her she needs to date because my sis is of the mind that is the only way to meet someone & settle down. My aunt stated "Dating is a waste of time". This surprised me cuz in my family all the older women are married have kids stay married no matter the situation. She doesn't want to have to go out and sit down & act a certain way to try to impress some dude who she probably wont connect with. I believe she was hurt by her divorce which in part keeps her introverted as well as less connected to the dude she has partly now. Why put her self through the torture. I will say it again if you want to get to know someone take em out their element, get them uncomfortable and see how they react.
Then I was asked about marriage. Now on marriage I am a bit softer cuz I want that one woman to be with forever, except more times than not forever tends to be a bit shorter than expected. Now my aunt never wants to get married again which may make her a lil biased. We spoke on another fam member who has a girl, which is carrying his baby, who he has yet to propose to. Now we all have theories bout said girl, mine is she just isn't right for him. Now should he change multiple lives & marry her just cuz she pregnant? Of course not. Too many women (men too, no bias here) are looking for someone to take care of them instead of being in love. I plan on getting married once, if shit don't work out a bachelor career is my ticket. Making sure she's the one is key & this is where the sage advice comes from:
She told me once I decide on that one woman to make sure I know the divorce laws in whatever state I'm in. Prenup is a key. I was shocked that an older woman is telling me this. Most women I speak with when the topic of prenup comes up they face scrunch up, body starts to shift like I'm asking em to go clean a septic tank.
Funny thing is I just had the same conversation with my homegirl re: marriage & where to & not to get married. NY safe to say is the worst place to get married for a man plain & simple. If you like L's this is where to take em..
To end my rambling all I gotta say is when women speak open ya ears cuz they will surprise you every now & then. Guess this trip was worth it after all ...
Was fortunate enough to sit with my sis & one of my fav aunts and speak on relationships. Clearly I was asked whats up with my love life and I Chris Brown'd all around that topic. I have one Per Se but that info for now on whether its good or bad is mine for now. So my sis who likes to throw me under the bus mentioned one girl she loves to bring up to company. She mentioned this girl who I had a casual sexual relationship with in the past. She loves to use this example for some reason to portray me as a dog. I believe she likes this situation cuz she allowed the girl to weasel into her life to stay close to me. She allowed the girl to make her believe she tricked on me. So I told my aunt like this straight up, Ive been taking care of myself financially since I was 14 & this girl tried to buy my love. I told shorty from jump what it was gonna be, didn't want her to be my girl before we ever had sex, just friends. She saw my point but asked if I normally have sex with my friends. I said no but when I do I handle it by separating emotions. I told her women have a tendency to mix up love & sex. Just cuz a man sleeps with you doesn't mean its more than that. Communication is key so lay the guidelines. She saw my point but still thought I was a dog.
Now the topic of dating came up. Now we all know from previous posts my take on that topic. What was interesting was that this older Haitian woman had the same views on dating as I did. She was married before, has 2 daughters, 4 grandkids & a long distance "boyfriend". Now my sis keeps telling her she needs to date because my sis is of the mind that is the only way to meet someone & settle down. My aunt stated "Dating is a waste of time". This surprised me cuz in my family all the older women are married have kids stay married no matter the situation. She doesn't want to have to go out and sit down & act a certain way to try to impress some dude who she probably wont connect with. I believe she was hurt by her divorce which in part keeps her introverted as well as less connected to the dude she has partly now. Why put her self through the torture. I will say it again if you want to get to know someone take em out their element, get them uncomfortable and see how they react.
Then I was asked about marriage. Now on marriage I am a bit softer cuz I want that one woman to be with forever, except more times than not forever tends to be a bit shorter than expected. Now my aunt never wants to get married again which may make her a lil biased. We spoke on another fam member who has a girl, which is carrying his baby, who he has yet to propose to. Now we all have theories bout said girl, mine is she just isn't right for him. Now should he change multiple lives & marry her just cuz she pregnant? Of course not. Too many women (men too, no bias here) are looking for someone to take care of them instead of being in love. I plan on getting married once, if shit don't work out a bachelor career is my ticket. Making sure she's the one is key & this is where the sage advice comes from:
She told me once I decide on that one woman to make sure I know the divorce laws in whatever state I'm in. Prenup is a key. I was shocked that an older woman is telling me this. Most women I speak with when the topic of prenup comes up they face scrunch up, body starts to shift like I'm asking em to go clean a septic tank.
Funny thing is I just had the same conversation with my homegirl re: marriage & where to & not to get married. NY safe to say is the worst place to get married for a man plain & simple. If you like L's this is where to take em..
To end my rambling all I gotta say is when women speak open ya ears cuz they will surprise you every now & then. Guess this trip was worth it after all ...
Hiatus
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As many of you know I have been away on vacation so posting has been a task for me.
The good thing is my mind has not stopped working while I was away and I have some ideas at work in my head.
Miami was a lil rough for me at times (actually broke down one night)... So just stay tuned and I will be back with thoughts that give you a glimpse into my psyche...
Oh & before I left I had a great meeting with my team on some new opportunities that I am extremely excited about so I will hit you with that as well
Till then stay up....
The good thing is my mind has not stopped working while I was away and I have some ideas at work in my head.
Miami was a lil rough for me at times (actually broke down one night)... So just stay tuned and I will be back with thoughts that give you a glimpse into my psyche...
Oh & before I left I had a great meeting with my team on some new opportunities that I am extremely excited about so I will hit you with that as well
Till then stay up....
Soundcheck @ Santos Party House 10.2.09
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Live from the MIA... I know people been looking for my next blog entry (100K) and I apologize for the delay
Well earlier in the month I had the pleasure of being invited to the latest Soundcheck event @ Santos. Shout out to the homie BreyKing. The main reason I went was to see my homegirl Overfab do her thing.
First of we had to see a couple of performances. 1st off we were blessed wit a couple of performances/randomness:
- Rock/Rap band Anton Glam: Honestly for an event called Soundcheck this performance did not take advantage of the option of checking levels & volume before their set. To honestly make a decision on this group would be difficult since I could not make out what their lyrics were.
- Next we were blessed with a producer by the name of Shatek. He played some of the hits he made for some major artists such as Cassidy, Fabolous, DMX, Joe Budden & up & coming rapper Vic Damone. Was good to put a face to the person who help make some of my fav joints through the years.
- Next was a performance by Rockstar Society. This group knew how to play to the crowd especially the ladies but again the lyrics and overall song quality was lacking.
- Next was a random ass fashion show by Kissed By Rain/Pink Elephant. I'm not even gonna comment.
Soundcheck Overfab 1 from rob fortune on Vimeo
Soundcheck Overfab 2 from rob fortune on Vimeo
SoundCheck Overfab 3 from rob fortune on Vimeo
Benefit plus I got to see my fav new group ShinobiNinja. This group has been on my mind since I seen them at out 1st FrshPulp event. Check the extra vids below to see what I mean...
SoundCheck-ShinobiNinja from rob fortune on Vimeo
SoundCheck-ShinobiNinja2 from rob fortune on Vimeo
So all in all was a good show, saw my homie rip it down, saw Shinobi rip it... Man good thing I'm going to be doing this more often... Stay tuned for my next endeavor...
Sorry Ass Excuse
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Just a random thought...
When did being a man involve not sticking to your word/actions? Do we really live in a world where we can make statements or act out & not stand by them? Do we automatically forget what was said/done because they uttered 5 letters - SORRY?
I live by one rule if it wasn't meant it wouldn't have been. I'm a strictly unapologetic person. Not to say I'm a dick & I do what I want no remorse. I just stick to my actions/words & take the consequences accordingly. If I say something its cuz I went through a thought process & that's how I meant it. If I do something I take responsibility & see where that leads. No need to bitch up and expect to be forgiven forever.
Case in point: I have friends who promise to come see me/call me/whateva. They don't follow up on their promise & expect me to treat them the same. Man fuck ya sorry for real. Be an adult, don't say shit you don't mean. Honestly that shit gets put in memory & sooner than later I'm just gonna neva speak to ya ass again.
Now if your hurt in any way by my actions I feel bad that your upset/hurt/bewildered but I'm not sorry. Its just words floating in air. Does it mean I will be more careful next time, probably not cuz I don't tip toe around feelings but you will adjust to me.
Jus a random thought at a random time...
When did being a man involve not sticking to your word/actions? Do we really live in a world where we can make statements or act out & not stand by them? Do we automatically forget what was said/done because they uttered 5 letters - SORRY?
I live by one rule if it wasn't meant it wouldn't have been. I'm a strictly unapologetic person. Not to say I'm a dick & I do what I want no remorse. I just stick to my actions/words & take the consequences accordingly. If I say something its cuz I went through a thought process & that's how I meant it. If I do something I take responsibility & see where that leads. No need to bitch up and expect to be forgiven forever.
Case in point: I have friends who promise to come see me/call me/whateva. They don't follow up on their promise & expect me to treat them the same. Man fuck ya sorry for real. Be an adult, don't say shit you don't mean. Honestly that shit gets put in memory & sooner than later I'm just gonna neva speak to ya ass again.
Now if your hurt in any way by my actions I feel bad that your upset/hurt/bewildered but I'm not sorry. Its just words floating in air. Does it mean I will be more careful next time, probably not cuz I don't tip toe around feelings but you will adjust to me.
Jus a random thought at a random time...
Making Strides
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On Sunday October 18, 2009 @ Prospect Park West, 9th Street Bandshell I will be participating in the 2009 Making Strides of Brooklyn, NY Breast Cancer Walk ( Event Directions Event Map )
recently did the AIDS Walk in March and felt so honored that I could take part. I personally didn't know anyone with AIDS/HIV but participated an donated. This Breast Cancer walk is a lil different for me since someone very dear to me is suffering through this tremendous battle. It does not only affect the sufferer but everyone close to them. I see the pain that they and their immediate family goes through and I wish I could do more. This to me is something so simple to honor that person as well as help others who suffer from this disease.
Making Strides Against Breast Cancer is your opportunity to honor breast cancer survivors, remember people we have lost, and raise funds and awareness to help end this disease. Making Strides is not a race; it is a celebration of survivorship, and a time to share in the camaraderie of thousands of other people like you in a shared goal to end a disease that threatens the lives of so many people we love. There is no registration fee or minimum fundraising amount and people of all ages are welcome to participate. If you'd like to participate my good friend Jazmine set up a page (Jazmine's Personal Page) where you can sign up as well as donate. She states:
- Dear Friends,
I've signed up to walk in the American Cancer Society Making Strides Against Breast Cancer and I’m hoping you’ll support me. There are a lot of breast cancer events out there, but I choose to support the American Cancer Society because funds raised through Making Strides find cures, help people stay well and get well from breast cancer, and empower all of us to fight back today. Together with the American Cancer Society, we can save lives!
Every donation really does make a difference. I know that times are tighter than normal for many of us, but if you can spare even $5, that will help:
- More progress will be made toward finding breast cancer’s causes and cures. The American Cancer Society has played a role in nearly every major breast cancer breakthrough of the last century, which have led to the discovery of lifesaving breast cancer treatments like Tamoxifen and Herceptin. You will help us find more.
- More people in our community will have the information and tools they need to help prevent breast cancer or find it early.
- More people with breast cancer will have a place to turn around the clock to help them through every step of their cancer journey whether it’s a free ride to treatment, a place to stay, or just talking to someone who has "been there."
- More women like our mothers, daughters, sisters, and grandmothers will have access to lifesaving mammograms and treatment.
To support me in my efforts, please visit my personal page. If you’re going to be in town, I’d love for you to join my team and walk with me. If not, please make as generous a donation as you can.
Each of us has our own reasons for caring about the fight against breast cancer … whatever your reasons, I hope you’ll choose to make a difference, make history, and make strides with me.
Sincerely,
Jazmine Catuy
So hopefully I will see some of you there and we can finally do something on a weekend that doesn't involve drinking & smoking. Let's all try to make a difference for once...
September Footlocker Friends & Family 30% Off
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Fall is officially here so time to set ya feet up to match them hot fall fashions. So you know I love kicks & I share my obsession with you so peep, the Footlocker family (Footlocker / Champs / Footaction) are having their September Family and Friends 30% off again. The deal can be used in stores & online with the special code unlimited til Sunday Sept. 27th. Check the coupons out below:
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I already hit them up today so get off ya ass & spend some cash. Recession??? Fuck that!!! I gotta stay fly... New Money
Legal Prostitution
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Well I was reading an interesting blog today while avoiding my actual work. Shout outs to the girl TiffanieNYC.
So by now you guys know my take on dating so I wont bore you. This particular blog was about who should take the lead on paying for the dates. My take is whoever initiates the convo on chilling/going out/seeing each other needs to step up when that black leather is slipped on the table. But i digress, the main point of this blog is based on what one commenter said after the blog and I quote:
Now I'm going to start by saying I know this is not a snapshot of the majority of women but this is an indication of a large group. I say large because if more than one woman thinks this way this is a damn shame. Now I know some good girls and to hear them make a statement like this I would cut them off ASAP.
1st thing is that your a prostitute straight up. If you basis for sleeping with a man is whether or not he bought you some IHOP or some Cheesecake Factory I guess imma see you over there by the Galaxy Motel on Pennsylvania Ave (that's Brooklyn folks)
2ndly he's trying to get in your pants regardless and now he knows the magic combo (wings & a debit card).
3rdly you will never be in a healthy/upstanding/beneficial/long relationship. You will constantly move from man to man based on his income and by the time you realize the error of your ways it will be too late is what I will say.
Now the girls who ain't worried bout laying & paying they have their own issue. They now deal with only men that obviously don't have anything to bring to the table. That my friends is what we call a loser/lame/suss pro.
Women are worth much more than just some goodies. I tell women all the time you don't know how good you got it & why the hell do you even deal with us men. I believe women are the standard of beauty and what is good on earth only if they knew it. This girl obviously has self esteem.worth issues & I hope she realizes it soon... Cuz ain't nothing less attractive to a man than a chick who just brings some pussy to the table (even though you can eat it).
So by now you guys know my take on dating so I wont bore you. This particular blog was about who should take the lead on paying for the dates. My take is whoever initiates the convo on chilling/going out/seeing each other needs to step up when that black leather is slipped on the table. But i digress, the main point of this blog is based on what one commenter said after the blog and I quote:
- "I am a WOMAN and I think I should never have to pay for anything when I go out with a man. If he’s trying to get my goodies, I’m rolling for free. If he can’t deal with it, then he should find some girl who ain’t worried about paying AND laying."
Now I'm going to start by saying I know this is not a snapshot of the majority of women but this is an indication of a large group. I say large because if more than one woman thinks this way this is a damn shame. Now I know some good girls and to hear them make a statement like this I would cut them off ASAP.
1st thing is that your a prostitute straight up. If you basis for sleeping with a man is whether or not he bought you some IHOP or some Cheesecake Factory I guess imma see you over there by the Galaxy Motel on Pennsylvania Ave (that's Brooklyn folks)
2ndly he's trying to get in your pants regardless and now he knows the magic combo (wings & a debit card).
3rdly you will never be in a healthy/upstanding/beneficial/long relationship. You will constantly move from man to man based on his income and by the time you realize the error of your ways it will be too late is what I will say.
Now the girls who ain't worried bout laying & paying they have their own issue. They now deal with only men that obviously don't have anything to bring to the table. That my friends is what we call a loser/lame/suss pro.
Women are worth much more than just some goodies. I tell women all the time you don't know how good you got it & why the hell do you even deal with us men. I believe women are the standard of beauty and what is good on earth only if they knew it. This girl obviously has self esteem.worth issues & I hope she realizes it soon... Cuz ain't nothing less attractive to a man than a chick who just brings some pussy to the table (even though you can eat it).
True Intention
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Now everyone knows me for my honesty as well as my ability to actually talk about what others don't. When I write my blogs its nothing against anyone in particular its just how I'm able to get past certain things and not allow them to affect me past that day. So with said disclaimer I proceed.
I recently had a conversation with a good friend about why am I still single being that I have a good heart, am unafraid to be honest & will do what it takes for my future wife to be happy. She came to the conclusion that it must be something I am doing that has these past relationships (girlfriend, jumpoff, potential) ending the way they do. Now I have no problem taking blame for my mistakes. If I never got top from that girl during the break me & my ex were on it wouldn't have came back to bite me yes but also she shouldn't have broken up wit me 6 times in 2 years. But whatever you know that's done (always venting). But what my friend fails to realize is that women put me in situations such as this
Is it fair for her to lead me on knowing that my feelings were growing? She cant say that she didn't know cuz I was always honest with her & I wear my heart on my sleeve when it comes to the opposite sex. I give what I give & I ask for the same in return. I don't like to be used in any way shape or form. I feel she used me as the rebound guy which is definitely not cool. Can we go back maybe can we move forward definitely but not together.
So to my good friend to answer your question I still don't think its me cuz I gave you this situation, the situation involving my ex & the situation of the girl who went through my phone. Believe it or not that is 3 situations of many and you know me so what else can I say. I do not front on any level. Women will be women & some cant have a good thing when they do they try to prove the dude is not what he seems (accusations of cheating, checking his texts & voicemail, asking a friend to flirt with him).
This was just me venting on a situation that was on my mind and in no way is this an indictment on the person involved cuz they read & support my blog. I am who I am. When I find her she will love me for me & not who she expects me to be.
That said I forgive but never forget...
I recently had a conversation with a good friend about why am I still single being that I have a good heart, am unafraid to be honest & will do what it takes for my future wife to be happy. She came to the conclusion that it must be something I am doing that has these past relationships (girlfriend, jumpoff, potential) ending the way they do. Now I have no problem taking blame for my mistakes. If I never got top from that girl during the break me & my ex were on it wouldn't have came back to bite me yes but also she shouldn't have broken up wit me 6 times in 2 years. But whatever you know that's done (always venting). But what my friend fails to realize is that women put me in situations such as this
- I have this friend, real cool chick. Met her years back. She friends with my boys, she knows my cuz all that. Always saw her at parties, texted back & forth. She was boo'ed up didn't really care to know her BF (he never liked me anyway). So we text flirted for a long time, seen her at parties & caught some mean dubs but always remained respectful (hey if u got a man & u flirting with me what can I do, I owe that dude nothing). So recently she broke up with her man and I took the opportunity to swoop in cuz I always had a thing for her maybe it was more sexual cuz of the party situations but whatever. We started chilling & really getting to know each other. I had a bigger thing (more so than sex) for her now cuz I got to know her without having to take her out (see previous post). But something said don't get into her cuz she just broke up with her man & I'm usually good with these toss up decisions but like I said we were friends 1st & it remains that way. So she tells me give her time cuz she really likes me but things are weird which is understandable (but in the same breath calling me boo). Fast forward a lil and we at another party, had no idea she was gonna be there but was actually happy to see her cuz we disconnected a lil bit. So I wait for my opportunity to get next to her and we talk a lil, I make her laugh (which I'm good at) & we dance. While were dancing said "ex" walks up & says something to her which changes her mood. Now she telling me she cant be next to me, giver her like 15 mins. Granted. Now I see her again and she shying away from me cuz he stalking around her. So my vibe for the party was done cuz I was drinking & my brain works overtime when I have liquor. I'm like I thought this nigga was done & I'm next on deck. Guess not. So party done I go home. Next day I hit up shorty cuz I wanted to apologize if I embarrassed her in any way cuz she wasn't returning the texts. So we talk & she tells me she never was really done wit dude & its still complicated. I'm not a dumb dude, maybe a lil blind sometimes but that's most people, I cant say I didn't know they weren't done but maybe I enjoyed the attention she gave for however brief. I'm understanding to her situation & I tell her that. I just wanted to be told the truth cuz now I feel like I lost something & he gets it undeservedly just cuz they got history.
Is it fair for her to lead me on knowing that my feelings were growing? She cant say that she didn't know cuz I was always honest with her & I wear my heart on my sleeve when it comes to the opposite sex. I give what I give & I ask for the same in return. I don't like to be used in any way shape or form. I feel she used me as the rebound guy which is definitely not cool. Can we go back maybe can we move forward definitely but not together.
So to my good friend to answer your question I still don't think its me cuz I gave you this situation, the situation involving my ex & the situation of the girl who went through my phone. Believe it or not that is 3 situations of many and you know me so what else can I say. I do not front on any level. Women will be women & some cant have a good thing when they do they try to prove the dude is not what he seems (accusations of cheating, checking his texts & voicemail, asking a friend to flirt with him).
This was just me venting on a situation that was on my mind and in no way is this an indictment on the person involved cuz they read & support my blog. I am who I am. When I find her she will love me for me & not who she expects me to be.
That said I forgive but never forget...
Criminal Minded
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Recently I had the opportunity to sit down with a person who seems to not be able to stay out of jail/the system. I use the term opportunity loosely cuz I was incarcerated for 3.5 hours of my life unfortunately.
I always asked the question: Why do people keep doing the things that land them in jail? When I sat in that cell all I could think is when am I getting out & how do I proceed from now on to never return. I had always thought that maybe they are used to jail/prison life and cant function on the "outside". I mean America punishes its criminals harshly. Beyond rapidly rising rates of imprisonment, offenders leave jail or prison only to be subjected to a variety of continuing restrictions, some lasting for life. In certain cases these restrictions reflect reasonable concerns. Who, for example, would argue that convicted child molesters should be allowed to work in schools or day-care centers? But many other restrictions on ex-offenders seem aimed more at extending punishment than serving society. Take the Higher Education Act of 1998, which bars ex-felons from eligibility for Pell Grants, the largest type of federal student loans. How can ex-offenders build better lives for themselves if they are not allowed to compete for the same kinds of educational opportunities as everyone else? So why not return to the place that has housed you for an extended period with food water shelter, no bills no concerns?
But these reasons are for harsh offenders who do serious time. I asked the dude who was booked with me what got him in there & subsequently on his way to Rikers possibly for more than 3 months. This dude is a career misdemeanor. He keeps stealing from retail drug stores. While in there he lets me know that he has a wife & child.
So I ask why? He tells me he just cant help himself even though she said if he gets knocked again don't come home. Risk not seeing the woman you love & your child for a few dollars that can be made working a job that he thinks is a waste of time. That's one of the problems in America, certain jobs are looked at as to below some standards. We make fun of hardworking immigrants who come here and do the jobs that we don't want to do, that's beneath us but yet go to same restaurant or cleaner they work at. Without them who would bus your table or fold your Rock & Republic jeans??? Those people are doing what they need to do to survive & take care of theirs. Maybe you should. Damn off a tangent again.
To end this I'm happy I was able to ask this dude these questions cuz it allows me to know the thought process that goes on in some criminal minds. Maybe one day I will be able to sit down with a person who did hard time.... hopefully I'm not locked up wit him... Ya dig!
I always asked the question: Why do people keep doing the things that land them in jail? When I sat in that cell all I could think is when am I getting out & how do I proceed from now on to never return. I had always thought that maybe they are used to jail/prison life and cant function on the "outside". I mean America punishes its criminals harshly. Beyond rapidly rising rates of imprisonment, offenders leave jail or prison only to be subjected to a variety of continuing restrictions, some lasting for life. In certain cases these restrictions reflect reasonable concerns. Who, for example, would argue that convicted child molesters should be allowed to work in schools or day-care centers? But many other restrictions on ex-offenders seem aimed more at extending punishment than serving society. Take the Higher Education Act of 1998, which bars ex-felons from eligibility for Pell Grants, the largest type of federal student loans. How can ex-offenders build better lives for themselves if they are not allowed to compete for the same kinds of educational opportunities as everyone else? So why not return to the place that has housed you for an extended period with food water shelter, no bills no concerns?
But these reasons are for harsh offenders who do serious time. I asked the dude who was booked with me what got him in there & subsequently on his way to Rikers possibly for more than 3 months. This dude is a career misdemeanor. He keeps stealing from retail drug stores. While in there he lets me know that he has a wife & child.
So I ask why? He tells me he just cant help himself even though she said if he gets knocked again don't come home. Risk not seeing the woman you love & your child for a few dollars that can be made working a job that he thinks is a waste of time. That's one of the problems in America, certain jobs are looked at as to below some standards. We make fun of hardworking immigrants who come here and do the jobs that we don't want to do, that's beneath us but yet go to same restaurant or cleaner they work at. Without them who would bus your table or fold your Rock & Republic jeans??? Those people are doing what they need to do to survive & take care of theirs. Maybe you should. Damn off a tangent again.
To end this I'm happy I was able to ask this dude these questions cuz it allows me to know the thought process that goes on in some criminal minds. Maybe one day I will be able to sit down with a person who did hard time.... hopefully I'm not locked up wit him... Ya dig!
Fear
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Originally this post was written on my Sprint Palm Pre @ 10pm after a concerned & caring phone call from my colleague, a few tears & a long ride home.
Now this is a post I wish I never had to write. At this present moment I am typing this on my phone after being arrested for assault. The reason I am doing so is to share some insight on a part of me I have no one to share with.
The story goes like this: As I am leaving work to head home to relax & watch some football my colleague tells me she needs to go to Rite Aid. I tell her I need to stop by the cleaners & I will meet her there. After I pick up my dry cleaning, from outside I see she's on line. When I walk in I see this jerk of a security guard. No acknowledgement. So I proceed to the register.
Now a bit of back story:
Last year I was stopped & accosted by this same security for shoplifting. Did I steal anything honestly no. A misunderstanding by an overzealous guard lead to police being called. To allow me to go home I signed a paper saying I was to never return even though they had no concrete proof like video or witnesses but I just wanted to go home. About a month later the manager of the store stops in to my bank and clearly says that the incident was a misunderstanding & that jerk is a lil to aggressive. He lets me know that its cool to return cuz he knows me.
Back to present day, said jerk proceeds to wait till me & my female friend are leaving to hop in front of me and ask me over to the side. I ask for what reason he gives no answer but that I wasn't to return. I proceed to let him know that the manager allows me back in. Now its been a good year since the incident. I proceed to leave he proceeds to hem me up which leads me to be passive aggressive and request he release me. No go. He proceeds to try & drag me in the store. Now the cops have already been alerted so I got a good 5 mins to get outta there. As he is physically trying to drag me, my coworker is there, my clients from the neighborhood is there so quite embarrassing no? As the dragging continues I grew tired of these events & I take this dude down.
Now quickly I'm 6'6 197 this dude had to be like 6'4 250 so I had to have that adrenaline pumping. I was scared that I did that. So now we on the ground he got my collar I got his neck with both hands. I again request he loos me. No go. I proceed to choke this dude. As I see his eyes turn bloodshot & his grip weaken I had a joyous feeling within me. As I squeeze and squeeze to try and subdue him I'm enjoying it. Then the fear sets in and I relax.
I stop here cuz this is where the cops came & cuffed me nearly breaking my wrist. After that is routine cop BS. I try so hard as a black man to avoid the system. No excuses ever made by me to the fact I am black. I take my life as it is & I live. This dude was black himself and he was hell bent on getting me knocked.
I also stop there as to reflect on the sheer enjoyment I felt when I had this guys life in my hands. As many of you know I am usually a cool calm & collected dude. Everybody's friend & part time acquaintance. But deep inside is this animal that I must not show cuz I have tried so hard to keep it contained. I fear the most that I will spend the rest of my life away from the ones I love cuz I couldn't control myself. I am my worst enemy & it makes me weep. I cried when the one I loved left me & I tried to mutilate myself. I cried when they tried to break my family up. And I cried when I sat in that cell. Not that I was sad or afraid of the police but because I didn't know if I would be ok within. I have limited close friends so I fight this demon alone. As I write now I wanna cry right here on the train & end it all. When I get home I will cry again. I write not only to help others but for rehabilitation on my soul.
When its all said & done you have just yourself in the end. This is my gift to you, a look into my heart, my soul, my mind so take me as I am & wish me well... Until I self-destruct...
Now this is a post I wish I never had to write. At this present moment I am typing this on my phone after being arrested for assault. The reason I am doing so is to share some insight on a part of me I have no one to share with.
The story goes like this: As I am leaving work to head home to relax & watch some football my colleague tells me she needs to go to Rite Aid. I tell her I need to stop by the cleaners & I will meet her there. After I pick up my dry cleaning, from outside I see she's on line. When I walk in I see this jerk of a security guard. No acknowledgement. So I proceed to the register.
Now a bit of back story:
Last year I was stopped & accosted by this same security for shoplifting. Did I steal anything honestly no. A misunderstanding by an overzealous guard lead to police being called. To allow me to go home I signed a paper saying I was to never return even though they had no concrete proof like video or witnesses but I just wanted to go home. About a month later the manager of the store stops in to my bank and clearly says that the incident was a misunderstanding & that jerk is a lil to aggressive. He lets me know that its cool to return cuz he knows me.
Back to present day, said jerk proceeds to wait till me & my female friend are leaving to hop in front of me and ask me over to the side. I ask for what reason he gives no answer but that I wasn't to return. I proceed to let him know that the manager allows me back in. Now its been a good year since the incident. I proceed to leave he proceeds to hem me up which leads me to be passive aggressive and request he release me. No go. He proceeds to try & drag me in the store. Now the cops have already been alerted so I got a good 5 mins to get outta there. As he is physically trying to drag me, my coworker is there, my clients from the neighborhood is there so quite embarrassing no? As the dragging continues I grew tired of these events & I take this dude down.
Now quickly I'm 6'6 197 this dude had to be like 6'4 250 so I had to have that adrenaline pumping. I was scared that I did that. So now we on the ground he got my collar I got his neck with both hands. I again request he loos me. No go. I proceed to choke this dude. As I see his eyes turn bloodshot & his grip weaken I had a joyous feeling within me. As I squeeze and squeeze to try and subdue him I'm enjoying it. Then the fear sets in and I relax.
I stop here cuz this is where the cops came & cuffed me nearly breaking my wrist. After that is routine cop BS. I try so hard as a black man to avoid the system. No excuses ever made by me to the fact I am black. I take my life as it is & I live. This dude was black himself and he was hell bent on getting me knocked.
I also stop there as to reflect on the sheer enjoyment I felt when I had this guys life in my hands. As many of you know I am usually a cool calm & collected dude. Everybody's friend & part time acquaintance. But deep inside is this animal that I must not show cuz I have tried so hard to keep it contained. I fear the most that I will spend the rest of my life away from the ones I love cuz I couldn't control myself. I am my worst enemy & it makes me weep. I cried when the one I loved left me & I tried to mutilate myself. I cried when they tried to break my family up. And I cried when I sat in that cell. Not that I was sad or afraid of the police but because I didn't know if I would be ok within. I have limited close friends so I fight this demon alone. As I write now I wanna cry right here on the train & end it all. When I get home I will cry again. I write not only to help others but for rehabilitation on my soul.
When its all said & done you have just yourself in the end. This is my gift to you, a look into my heart, my soul, my mind so take me as I am & wish me well... Until I self-destruct...
Air Jordan XI - Space Jam
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November 27th, 2009 is a very important day for all of the Jordan fans out there such as myself. The Space Jams don’t release in retailers until the 27th for $175, but we get more of glimpse of the packaging as well as the kicks. The anticipation time until they officially drop is killing me. My SneakerHead status is official with my collection well over 115 pairs so safe to say these will be added to the bunch no matter the cost.
Pride
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Now as you must know this last Monday was Labor Day & on that day comes the all important West Indian Day Parade.
This year I really wasn't feeling it but my peoples kept talking bout it (Jay, 100k) so I went out there decked in my 4 Haitian flags.
I am so glad I got out my house to go with that beautiful weather we had but most importantly I was so proud when I saw my Haitian people.
Why was I so proud? Cuz I love being Haitian. When I tell people I am they are so surprised (maybe cuz I understand Creole better than I can speak it). Both my parents are from there while I was born here. I grew up in a time when Haitians were looked upon as dirt but I never let it affect me cuz I love who my family is.
As we came together on Monday and just vibed with each other as well as the other countries it just makes you forget all that's affecting you and warms your heart...
One day I wish to go back and do something worthwhile for my people cuz they struggling down there with no help from any other country (no oil, no money to support war) every year the island is ravaged by hurricanes & the people suffer through it with the most corrupt government established. But as for now just wanted to share a lil something about me.
Shouts out to all my Haitians ( Jen, Yannique Telly) my fam who check for my blog & whoever else got pride for theirs.... Love Ya!!
The Dating Game
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Well I have been off for a couple of days enjoying the Labor Day weekend. (Ironic side note: I was celebrating this holiday with alot of unemployed people, just funny to me)
As per a request from a friend to get back to my purpose Ive decided to write on a topic that seems to afflict everyone young & old.
The topic is dating. First off I would like to point out that I personally am against "dating". Reasons why:
The reason I choose these places is I personally believe people cant be real unless they're out of their element. I'm known as a habitual line pusher. You put a line in place & I will push that shit back to the most uncomfortable position then you can tell me how you feel.
Don't get me wrong when I was young and dumb I actively took or tried to take women out and as I grew up I noticed a few things.
Now when women meet a man that they are interested in they tend to expect a night out you know dinner, movie, dancing all that jazz. Why? Because women live by what society deems a gentleman and what their friends/ strangers might think. But have you ever asked the question are you worth the time & money spent to find that out. Most time no your worth much less. Women always want to play the miss independent card and say she never needs a man to take her out. Granted there is no need but there is a want. You want a man to take you out and show how much you mean to him in material aspects. plenty a time Ive gotten that screwed up Gremlin face when she asks where we going and I firmly respond no where. I much rather spend my time getting to know you and learning what makes you tick then be at dinner & learn your an idiot or you learn I'm a jerk. Granted before you go out with me don't you wanna know I'm not gonna waste your time.
They say "dating" is to find that special someone: someone with whom to build a life together. Much of the time it leads to unrequited Love: you may find someone you adore who simply doesn't share your feelings. Conversely, another person may be madly attracted to you but elicit no such feelings in return.
Example: I was told of this girl who met this guy. Both attracted to each other yes. Only difference this guy would do what ever he could to sleep with her & she would do whatever it takes to continue getting attention and gifts. He continued the payroll & she continued the lure of the pussy. This in a nutshell is "dating". One person foots the bill the other takes advantage (Men do this as well don't get me wrong).
I've read "dating" is a chance to have fun and try things you might not have before. Even if you don't click with the other person, it can still make for an enjoyable outing. That is retarded if you don't click with them how can you possibly enjoy yourself. You re going to be counting the mins until you can end this misery.
At my age I would love to settle down, have a home, kids the whole nine. Hell when I was younger I thought I would have achieved these things already but alas so much more life to live. I know finding that one girl who doesn't lie just to lie, who actually doesn't care what others think of her, who says whats on her mind is gonna be a task but knowing that should I settle for someone who enjoys my company & wallet or someone I can grow old with. Through my trials & tribulations with the opposite sex I've learned that not dating allows me the chance to see the real her. She doesn't have to abide but these dumb ass rules of:
As per a request from a friend to get back to my purpose Ive decided to write on a topic that seems to afflict everyone young & old.
The topic is dating. First off I would like to point out that I personally am against "dating". Reasons why:
- Very lopsided in terms of benefits.
- Can be a huge waste of time - either on one part or both.
- Doesn't achieve the results needed to truly learn about someone.
- Both parties are on their "best behavior".
The reason I choose these places is I personally believe people cant be real unless they're out of their element. I'm known as a habitual line pusher. You put a line in place & I will push that shit back to the most uncomfortable position then you can tell me how you feel.
Don't get me wrong when I was young and dumb I actively took or tried to take women out and as I grew up I noticed a few things.
- Conversation was useless unless talk of date was mention within 1st 5mins.
- Length of "dating" that particular person was based on length of monetary assets.
- Feelings and excitement was only generated on said date.
Now when women meet a man that they are interested in they tend to expect a night out you know dinner, movie, dancing all that jazz. Why? Because women live by what society deems a gentleman and what their friends/ strangers might think. But have you ever asked the question are you worth the time & money spent to find that out. Most time no your worth much less. Women always want to play the miss independent card and say she never needs a man to take her out. Granted there is no need but there is a want. You want a man to take you out and show how much you mean to him in material aspects. plenty a time Ive gotten that screwed up Gremlin face when she asks where we going and I firmly respond no where. I much rather spend my time getting to know you and learning what makes you tick then be at dinner & learn your an idiot or you learn I'm a jerk. Granted before you go out with me don't you wanna know I'm not gonna waste your time.
They say "dating" is to find that special someone: someone with whom to build a life together. Much of the time it leads to unrequited Love: you may find someone you adore who simply doesn't share your feelings. Conversely, another person may be madly attracted to you but elicit no such feelings in return.
Example: I was told of this girl who met this guy. Both attracted to each other yes. Only difference this guy would do what ever he could to sleep with her & she would do whatever it takes to continue getting attention and gifts. He continued the payroll & she continued the lure of the pussy. This in a nutshell is "dating". One person foots the bill the other takes advantage (Men do this as well don't get me wrong).
I've read "dating" is a chance to have fun and try things you might not have before. Even if you don't click with the other person, it can still make for an enjoyable outing. That is retarded if you don't click with them how can you possibly enjoy yourself. You re going to be counting the mins until you can end this misery.
At my age I would love to settle down, have a home, kids the whole nine. Hell when I was younger I thought I would have achieved these things already but alas so much more life to live. I know finding that one girl who doesn't lie just to lie, who actually doesn't care what others think of her, who says whats on her mind is gonna be a task but knowing that should I settle for someone who enjoys my company & wallet or someone I can grow old with. Through my trials & tribulations with the opposite sex I've learned that not dating allows me the chance to see the real her. She doesn't have to abide but these dumb ass rules of:
- How long she should wait before having sex.
- Not ordering a big meal as to not look greedy.
- Pretending to laugh at my jokes.
- Making me wait at least 10 mins.
Leaders Of The New School 9.2.09
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Brought to you by my peoples @ Forty Fresh x Sosa Management x FRSH PULP.
If you missed this then I dunno what you were doing but I can bet it wasn't as live as last night.
This has to be the livest full show I seen ever since I been running with Frsh Pulp / I.M.G. Straight shouts to the artists as well as Boss Lady A, 100K, D. Thornton, Dave, Jenny F, Kraff Swag & especially the audience who stayed live.
Videos below so see a taste of what you missed. Remember Stasia I wanna be down no matter what...
Shalea
If you missed this then I dunno what you were doing but I can bet it wasn't as live as last night.
This has to be the livest full show I seen ever since I been running with Frsh Pulp / I.M.G. Straight shouts to the artists as well as Boss Lady A, 100K, D. Thornton, Dave, Jenny F, Kraff Swag & especially the audience who stayed live.
Videos below so see a taste of what you missed. Remember Stasia I wanna be down no matter what...
Shalea
Eric Sosa
Wordspit
RIP MC
The Air Jordan History of Flight Lookbook
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Was perusing the net as I do everyday at work (Drastic voluntary inactivity) and came up on something very interesting.
As a devout SneakerHead this lookbook is exactly what exemplifies why we go through what we go through for our beloved J's.
Take a look and learn some interesting facts about obviously the best sneakers ever made... Now back to work...
The Air Jordan History of Flight Lookbook
True Beauty
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On Page 194 of Glamour's September issue, one photo of a near-naked woman has become a hot topic. All because of one little pot belly.
Plus-size model Lizzie Miller, in every other way a perfect specimen of humanity, is seen smiling broadly as her stomach hangs out over her underwear. (More At Glamour.com: Read About The Photo) Now most people, men & women, would be disgusted by this no? Within hours of hitting the stands, the magazine's switchboard lit up with calls from astonished and delighted readers. I myself when I first saw the pic was amazed that a Fashion magazine like Glamour who usually show unnecessarily skinny women on its pages all the time would publish this. I feel just like Ms Miller "I think this just shows how people are so hungry to see these kinds of images in magazines."
Whether you like it or not most women look like this, if not for the time they don't have to hit the gym or from the greatest gift they can give a man - having a baby. I myself have slept with women like this recently and was not disgusted. It comes with the territory & I enter that region repeatedly. Who wouldn't love a woman like Ciara or JLo or Halle Berry but it ain't gonna happen always. Those celebrities have expensive trainers & meal plans. You not gonna look like them no matter how many celebrity endorsed workout DVDs you buy. (You hear me Natalie)
Now some think Glamour is advocating obesity or unhealthiness but no cuz Miller is 5'11 & a sz 12-14. Far from obese or ugly. She is comfortable with her body which is the ultimate sexy. I cant tell you how many women walk the streets all day long afraid to be looked at and don't understand how beautiful they are. Think they gotta look like Paris Hilton or L. Lohan. Those chicks are beautiful in their own way as are woman who are short, tall, fat, skinny. No matter what you look like you have something worth giving and someone is out there for you & if not fuck it live your life.
I applaud this woman & hope that it opens the eyes of women & America. Like they say big girls need love too.
Windows W/ The Blinds Down
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Now we all know how marketing works. Hell I took it as my major in college. When in certain markets you make the ad attractive to the culture/people/demographic that your targeting.
Which is what Microsoft was aiming for here. Now can anyone tell me the difference in these 2 photos? I'll give you a sec.....
Yes correct they changed the black man out of the ad for Poland (Now I work in a predominately Polish neighborhood & I can tell you these MF'ers are racist to the core). That's all good you know stick to what sells, can't be mad black people have always been looked down upon
So you ask "Why write the post?" Well if you were a bit more astute and really looked at the photo you would have noticed that its not that they changed the black man to a white man... The jerks at Microsoft photoshopped a white man's head on the black dude's body. The US ad, meant to showcase Microsoft's business IT software, features a politically correct ethnic mix of a white woman, black man, and Asian man seated around a conference table. In the Polish ad, however, the head of a white man replaces the black man. If the ad's designers were more adept at Photoshop, less lazy, or just weren't racist no one would have noticed. But the software geniuses forgot to swap out the black man's hand, which is clearly visible in the ad resting on the conference table.
Poland's predominately white population might have been a factor in doctoring the image. Indeed, the largest non-white group in Poland is the Vietnamese, which account for around 3 percent of the country's 38 million citizens (which is why the Asian dude was left alone). Moving to quickly squash the racially charged mistake, Microsoft apologized and said that it was "looking into the details of the situation." So we all know that some dude got fired for just carrying on the normal day activities of Microsoft. The company also removed the ad from its Polish Web site, and replaced it with the original ad which I guess shows that they like black people
Now am I gonna get rid of my Windows OS & jump to Apple, no but it does show you the inner workings of a main US conglomerate & yes they are not the only ones. Unfortunately this is just another example of present day racism.
Wordspit... The Coolest B-Boi Stance Mixtape
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So here it is fols the long anticipated mixtape by my boy Wordspit. Homie is dope said this before and i dont co-sign many niggaz out there cuz they straight lame.
But as always ya like to find out yaselves so hit the link & cool out...
The Coolest B-Boi Stance Mixtape
Events: Leaders of the New School
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September 2nd
Doors open at 10 pm : Show starts at 10:30 pm
@ Bowery Poetry Club
308 Bowery btwn Houston and Bleecker
Here is another dope event that I will be attending. Brought to you by my peoples @ Forty Fresh x Sosa Management x FRSH PULP. If you seen my photos or checked my pages before then you know the events are on point. The run down is:
- RIP MC (Dude is on point)
- Wordspit (If you don't know get with it. Check his Joystick Madness video on a previous post)
- Eric Sosa (Smooth)
- Shalea (Seen her live, If you knew the story on how we met her, Looks & the voice = Goosebumps)
This post is mainly for the folks who say I never put them on to events so bring yaself out & enjoy real entertainment.
Update: Advance tickets are $8 and you can always holla @ me or shoot an email to rsvp4show@gmail.com and they will hold you a ticket.
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