Women have a real weird/odd/dumb way of looking at things...
So I was having a conversation wit my homegirl and she let me know bout this dude trying to get in her pants. Obviously I wasn't surprised since that's life in general nowadays. She let me know he asked her to take him to dinner. She was obviously thrown off guard cuz why would a woman pay right? Well that wasn't the point, what threw me off was that she told him "I'm old fashioned, he's courting me so he should pay". I instantly sucked my teeth and looked away.
First off what man still courts a woman and how can you possibly be old fashioned when you weren't born in the 1930's? I'm totally fine with women wanting men to pay just be real don't bullshit. The only women that should be claiming old fashioned is OLD women. This all goes to that Miss Independent when you want to be shit. If you like a dude suck it up and take him out.
Courting is done & chivalry been dead. No man is dropping his coat in a puddle to save your shoes. Are there still gentlemen? Yes. But lets be straight any man doing nice things when he first meet you is to get what he wants from you. I tell all my female friends, you find out if the dude is really into once he gets what he wants (whatever that may be even though its usually one thing).
Trust me a man wants to know his time and money and sanity is not being wasted on someone who isn't worth it. Men who trick or do whatever a woman wants off top is a man who doesn't trust in being honest with said woman.
If This Is The Last Time...
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When I first met you I knew you were gonna have an effect on me for the future.
Never did I think it would be the effect many others have had already.
If I could rewind time and go back to your first smile, our first date, the first time I felt jealousy cuz of you, our first kiss & our first goodbye knowing it would lead to another hello.
We have issues. Never thought they couldn't be resolved. My sensitivity your insensitivity.
I always referred to you as my yin to my yang. Our differences is what lead to my love. Love is empty if not shared equally.
Our love was never solidified in a physical form. To me you are the perfect woman.
Lack of communication leads to misunderstandings & I don't believe you truly understood the feelings I had for you.
We were comfortable with each other. Relationship not for growing together but for convenience.
Now I must get comfortable with not being able to speak to you for the first time in 19 mos. For that time you were my number 1.
That ring on your left hand symbolizes more than promises. It was a holding place. A place where the wedding band would have a lasting home.
My love is eternal. My greatest fear in life is to be alone. My greatest fear of the present is to never hear your voice, your laugh, see your smile & hear those three words that are so meaningless to others but a way of life to me... I LOVE YOU
Past Present & Future.
Never did I think it would be the effect many others have had already.
If I could rewind time and go back to your first smile, our first date, the first time I felt jealousy cuz of you, our first kiss & our first goodbye knowing it would lead to another hello.
We have issues. Never thought they couldn't be resolved. My sensitivity your insensitivity.
I always referred to you as my yin to my yang. Our differences is what lead to my love. Love is empty if not shared equally.
Our love was never solidified in a physical form. To me you are the perfect woman.
Lack of communication leads to misunderstandings & I don't believe you truly understood the feelings I had for you.
We were comfortable with each other. Relationship not for growing together but for convenience.
Now I must get comfortable with not being able to speak to you for the first time in 19 mos. For that time you were my number 1.
That ring on your left hand symbolizes more than promises. It was a holding place. A place where the wedding band would have a lasting home.
My love is eternal. My greatest fear in life is to be alone. My greatest fear of the present is to never hear your voice, your laugh, see your smile & hear those three words that are so meaningless to others but a way of life to me... I LOVE YOU
Past Present & Future.
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